Whether meeting a client, holding a business meeting or
interviewing for a new job, our hands tend to get clammy. The
last thing you want to do when this occurs is to shake hands
with another.
To avoid the problem, we tend to wipe our hands on our pants
or skirt every few minutes hoping that the last swipe takes
place right before that important person walks into the room
and extends their hand. An easy solution for this is to use
antiperspirant. Antiperspirant takes at least 24 hours to
become effective, so spray both hands at least once a day to
avoid the 'clammy hands' nightmare. It is important to remember
that if you do have clammy hands, don't dry them with a tissue,
as the wetness of one's hand may cause a piece of tissue to
stick to you. Use a handkerchief or napkin to blot hands.
Some people love to kiss when they shake hands. Recently, a
mother asked me how to avoid the 'hand-shake kisser'. People
tend to extend their hand and then immediately move in for the
cheek kiss. If you do not feel comfortable with this sort of
greeting, I recommend an effective method called the elbow
lock.
After you extend your hand to shake, lock your elbow and it
subtlety prevents the other person from leaning in to kiss.
Practice with another and you will see the effectiveness of
locking your elbow.